Chocolate Turtle Cookies: Making Friends in My 20′s

by simplylife on August 20, 2012

*Look! I was featured on Rudi’s Organic Bakery Blog, Fresh From the Oven!

Good friends are not something to take for granted.  I’m in my late 20′s.  I’ve lived in 6 different states, over 10 different homes/apartments, I’ve traveled and lived overseas, and both my husband and I have changed jobs as we have gone back to school.  While I would not trade any of these experiences, having such a transient lifestyle makes it difficult to form friendships as easily as living in a dorm across the hall from all women my age.

So, although I am well aware that some friends come and go, I also believe having community is extremely important, and my husband and I try to make an extra effort to form community wherever we’re living.

One of our favorite things to do is have friends over for dinner.  I love trying out new recipes and (hopefully) making others feel comfortable and taken care of.

As much as I love hosting, I also love going to other’s homes to enjoy a meal.  While I enjoy trying new restaurants and having a full menu to choose my meal from, there’s just something unparalleled to sitting in someone’s home, sharing food at their kitchen table, and eating a meal they have thought out and prepared.

So when friends recently invited us over for dinner, we happily accepted and I was thrilled to have an excuse to bake a new dessert!  I’ve been holding onto this recipe on Pinterest, waiting for just the right time to combine the chocolate, caramel and pecans.

These were a hit and this recipe is definitely a keeper!  I actually think they would be great without the carmel in the middle and just as “chocolate pecan cookies,” but that gooey carmel center definitely puts them over-the-top!  The consistency is a cross between cookies and brownies, and I can tell you that within 24 12 hours, there was not a single cookie left.

Oh, and if you also notice the difference in making friends, there’s an interesting article in the NY Times, Why Is It Hard to Make Friends Over 30?, that hits on this topic.

Chocolate Turtle Cookies

by Simply Life

Adapted from Pixelated Crumb

Keywords: bake dessert chocolate pecans nuts Christmas cookie

Ingredients (12 cookies)

  • 1 cup all-purpose flour
  • 1/3 cup cocoa powder
  • 1/4 teaspoon salt
  • 8 tablespoons (1 stick) butter, softened
  • 2/3 cup sugar
  • 1 large egg, separated, plus 1 egg white
  • 2 tablespoons milk
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • 1 cups pecans, chopped into small pieces
  • 12 soft caramel candies
  • 3 tablespoons light cream

Instructions

1. Combine flour, cocoa, and salt in bowl. Beat butter and sugar together until light and fluffy with electric mixer on medium-high speed, about 2 minutes.

2. Mix in egg yolk, milk, and vanilla. Reduce speed to low and add flour mixture until just combined. Wrap dough in plastic wrap and refrigerate until firm, about 1 hour.

3. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Prepare 2 baking sheets by lining with parchment paper or spraying with nonstick spray. Whisk egg whites in bowl until frothy. Place pecans in another bowl.

4. Roll dough into 1-inch balls (I used an ice-cream scooper), dip in bowl of egg whites to completely coat dough, then roll in pecans. Place balls 2 inches apart on prepared baking sheets. Using the back of 1/2-teaspoon measure or your thumb, gently make indentation in center of each ball. Bake until set, about 12 minutes.

5. Unwrap caramels and place in small pot with cream. Slowly heat mixture, constantly stirring, until caramel has melted (you can also place them in the microwave for about 1 to 2 minutes). Once cookies are removed from oven, gently re-press existing indentations. Fill each cookie with 1/2 teaspoon caramel mixture. Cool 10 minutes, then transfer to wire rack to cool completely. Serve and enjoy!

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I was recently contacted to try 989, a new sugar-free, all-natural vitamin-enhanced hydration beverage.  It comes in several flavors, is zero calories and is free of preservatives.

I was sent the Pomegranate Blueberry, Grape and Punch flavors to try.  While the bottles look like they are full of water, the active ingredients are actually stored in the cap.  When you’re ready to drink the beverage, you just turn the cap and release the ingredients; the liquid will change colors based on the flavor!

I tried all 3 flavors and was surprised that Grape and Punch were actually my favorite.  They were both relatively sweet and a refreshing drink.  I personally felt the Pomegranate Blueberry tasted too much like a “vitamin” (not sure how better to describe it) than the actual fruit flavor.  These drinks were perfect to have after my husband and I played a long game of tennis in the hot sun!

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  • http://whatisbakinginthebarbershop.blogspot.com/ Colleen

    First of all, these cookies look fantastic!!! I know I’d have a hard time eating just one. And I’ve never seen those 989 drinks. They look really refreshing – perfect for summer!

  • Amy B @ Second City Randomness

    Omg… COOKIES!
    It is kind of hard to solidify friendships later in life. I actually had a “friend date” with a girl I work with last night. Basically, she told me she was leaving her job, but really wanted to continue hanging out bc we get along so well. It was cute. And now I have a new friend. :)

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      Yay for friend dates! :)

  • Belinda @zomppa

    I hear you! I moved every year or every 2 years from the time I left for college to…well, let’s just say it’s been the longest I’ve lived anywhere now. I get you – things like time and stuff sometimes make it harder to make new deep friendships, but they do happen. The trickiest part, especially if you move a lot, is keeping your old friends.

  • http://www.plumber-san-diego.us/ San Diego Plumber

    I agree with you. There is nothing more satisfying than preparing your own snack and sharing it with your loved ones at home. Wow! Your recipe looks delicious. Do you have more recipes for snacks other than chocolate? Thank you.

  • Joanne @ Eats Well With Others

    I read that article and found it to be fascinating (and very true!). I’ve found it MUCH harder to make closer friends the farther I got out of college. I am not averse to winning people’s friendship by baking for them, however, These sound like the perfect dessert!

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      Haha, I agree! If it takes a little chocolate to form a friendship – great to already have a common ground :)

  • http://twitter.com/Daisy_III IndulgeInspireImbibe

    I would imagine these cookies were a huge hit!!

    Unlike you, I’ve lived in the same state nearly my entire life, minus the whole college stint, so my sense of community is pretty large! Blogging opened even more doors in that respect!

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      Yes, blogging has definitely helped to meet others in the Boston area who love a good meal! :)

  • http://twitter.com/betterWberries Michelle

    All of my favorite things together! I’m going to have to print this recipe out and put it on my bulletin board I just hung in my kitchen :-)

    Love your thoughts on friendship and community – food is truly one of the best ways to bring people together.

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      So glad you like it! You’ll have to let me know what you think after you bake them!

  • Marialuisa Echeberria

    I understand what you say. Sometimes is difficult to make new friends but in the end, they are there believe me. I´ve moved around many times, not as much as you, but due to different reasons, we had different houses in different provinces in Spain so it was difficult to “keep” friends. Now I´ve finally settled, I know where are my friends and who I can count with. We´ve been together bringing up our children and going through bad moments, I love to invite them more than they do love to cook for me, but we´re not all the same Gina, I´ve learned to accept this too, I used to go to every house when I was living in the place my mom lives now, but when I moved here when I got married, people acted different, nobody liked to cook, they did and do it because they have to, on the contrary, I was always taking a chance to invite people over to cook different dishes and I still do it, but if someone doesn´t invite me back, I don´t go over and over it as I used to do it 10 years ago, and actually I´m the one inviting now, cooking Indian food, parties in green and white colour, raclettes in summer, and I´m not going to give up doing it.
    Gina, do you mind if I copy you this recipe???, I´ll say I´ve taken it from your blog. I just loved it.
    Love
    Marialuisa

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom!

      Yes! Of course you can share this recipe! I’m glad you enjoy it!

  • DeliciousDish

    If this dessert doesn’t make friends, I don’t know what would. Blogging has actually helped me make a lot of friends… it’s a great way to get to know people with the same interests.

  • http://twitter.com/swankydietitian Kristen RD

    These look just amazing! Pecans and caramel are two of my favorite things! YUM!
    Entertaining friends is always so much fun. Now that I have been dating my guy for a little while, we are planning on doing a few more get togethers. :)

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      Yes! You’ll have to bring the cookies to your next get together! :)

  • http://twitter.com/merigoesround Meri

    as I am in my later twenties now too I find that a lot of the new friends that I make are either from my work or my boyfriends’ work. It was a lot easier to make new friends in college, but I still see some of those friends now too. I wish you were my friend so you would bring those desserts over haha! If you’re ever in Minnesota let me know haha!

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      Agreed! I’ll let you know if I’m ever in town :)

  • http://bite-sized-thoughts.blogspot.com/ Kari

    I have definitely come to appreciate friendships more as I got older. As a child, it was more about not being left out – now I really value the sharing and friendship in its own right.

    These cookies look fantastic too :)

  • http://www.wearenotmartha.com wearenotmartha

    Oh my gosh; I love turtles so these cookies are RIGHT up my alley. They look seriously perfect! I’ve definitely been finding that as I grow older, I form friendships with people I have a lot in common with as opposed to people I have history with. When you’re in you’re late 20s, it’s weird how different your life can be from someone’s who it was once so similar to!

    Sues

  • http://www.keepitsweetdesserts.com/ Lauren at Keep It Sweet

    You can bring these to my place any time:-)

  • http://www.culinarycolleen.com/ Colleen

    I totally feel you on the difficulty of making friends in your 20′s. I’ve moved around a bunch too, and now my college friends are all over the country. I think these cookies would be a great way to make friends though!

  • http://www.acambridgestory.com Emily

    Making friends as an adult can definitely be challenging. Did you ever see this NYTimes article? I found it so interesting – and SO true. It basically says the days of galavanting and having nothing to do in college or our early 20s were conducive to making lifelong friends. But as we get older, we don’t have that much free time and, even though we meet new people who have BFF potential, these friendships never quite launch. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/07/15/fashion/the-challenge-of-making-friends-as-an-adult.html?_r=1

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      yes! That is a great article!

      • http://www.acambridgestory.com Emily

        And you clearly linked to the article in this post!! Sorry to miss that, I was so fixated by these cookies!

        • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

          no worries at all – it’s a great article!

  • yummychunklet

    These look awesome. You’ll definitely have a ton of new friends with these!

  • Liz @ Tip Top Shape

    I also love entertaining. It’s a great way to get to know people without having to take it to the bar. Love these cookies! They will be making an appearance in my kitchen soon for sure :D

  • Lorraine Joy Alegria-Vizcarra

    I love this recipe. Thank you for sharing.

  • Amy (Savory Moments)

    Oh, my. These cookies look so scrumptious! I bet these are a great way to make new friends!

  • asmita

    Delicious!

  • http://twitter.com/LeafynotBeefy Kelly

    I’m also in my late-20s and totally agree, although unlike you, except for college and about 2 months living with a friend, I’ve never moved or lived in another state, but most of my close friends have. Those cookies look amazing!
    ~Kelly
    http://www.leafynotbeefy.com

  • http://twitter.com/LifeAfterSwim Nikki Tritsch

    Wowzaaa those cookies look outstanding! YUM!

  • Jolene (www.everydayfoodie.ca)

    I often invite people over for dinner, drinks, or a cocktail/wine and cheese party. I am one of the main social coordinators in my group of friends or the first to invite a new friend to do something.

  • Mom

    I loved your guest post on Rudi’s blog! You’re right about these cookie…ooooh…luscious looking; amazing pictures! I would love to make these! Community is vital in my opinion and my efforts were made on day two after moving my last time. Your sister and I went door to door introducing ourselves and I’m grateful to this day that we did it!

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