Chili Relleno Bites: Advice From My Mother

by simplylife on May 13, 2012

What was the best advice your mother gave you?

I’m pretty fortunate because I have a mom not only told me words that would make me a better person, but modeled it for me.  Here’s some of the best advice my mother gave to me:

Never say anything about someone you wouldn’t say with that person listening.

This has taught me time and time again not to gossip.  We all know this rule is not easily done, but every time you quietly walk away as the conversation turns to a negative tone is always something to feel proud of.  While I’m no where near perfect, this rule has made me think twice before speaking many times and inspired me to change the topic or find something positive to say, even if it wasn’t cool.

Give to others. 

It doesn’t matter if your financial resources are plenty or scarce, give.  I watched my mom discreetly pay for the woman next to her at the grocery store who she saw turning red as she looked for that $10 bill.  I’ve seen her thrilled to support the neighbor raising money for a charity.  No matter the state of economy, when there’s someone in need and a way to help, my mom is always willing to give.

Have an open mind.

After going 50+ years without eating bananas, whole grains and spinach, my mom made drastic changes to her diet and tried every “power food” under the sun to make the needed changes naturally.  Whether it’s with politics, my need to stay out pasty curfew when I was 16, or another controversial topic, my mom is always willing to listen to all sides of a story before making a decision (whether or not I was successful in changing her mind when I was 16 is another story ;) ).

Happy Mother’s Day to every mother out there (especially to my mother and mother-in-law! :) )!

How will you be celebrating your mom today?  Looking for some last minute ideas?

Maybe your mom would love a big homemade brunch.  If so, then these Sweet Potato and Pecan Cinnamon Rolls are just for you.

Maybe your mom just likes a simple sandwich.  Give her something truly gourmet, like a Caramelized Onion, Asiago and Arugula Sandwich on homemade bread.

Or maybe she loves a bit of heat and a touch of cheese in her meals, and is always up for trying something new.  If so, then you have to try these Chili Relleno Bites!

 

Chili Relleno Bites

by Simply Life

Adapted from Petite Kitchenesse 

Keywords: bake appetizer side vegetarian quinoa cheese Southwest

Ingredients

  • 2 poblano peppers
  • 1 tbs. olive oil
  • 1/2 cup quinoa
  • 1/2 cooked cup polenta (I bought it already cooked from Trader Joe’s)
  • 1 cup shredded cheddar cheese
  • 1 egg
  • 1/4 cup tomato sauce
  • 1 tbs. fresh cilantro, chopped
  • 1 scallion, chopped
  • Salt and pepper, to taste
  • Cumin, to taste
  • Paprika, to taste
  • Chili Powder, to taste
  • Breadcrumbs (optional, see note in step #2)
  • Salsa, to serve (optional)

Instructions

1. Set oven to broil. Place poblano peppers on baking sheet and drizzle with olive oil. Broil until peppers blacken, about 5 minutes. Remove from oven and place in sealed container. Let sit about 15 minutes. When cool enough to handle, remove and peel off skin. Remove seeds and chop peppers. Set aside.

2. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Cook quinoa according to package directions. Place in medium bowl and mix with cooked polenta, roasted pepper and all remaining ingredients except breadcrumbs and salsa. (Of note: the original recipe recommends adding breadcrumbs, if texture appears wet, until texture is sticker and more-solid. I did not do this and they came out fine, but some were a bit more crumbly. Next time I may add some breadcrumbs to compare).

3. Spray baking sheet with cooking spray. Using an ice cream scooper, scoop mixture and form balls. Place on baking sheet and cook 20-30 minutes, until browned and crispy. Serve with salsa, if desired, and enjoy!

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  • itzyskitchen

    These look like little bites of deliciousness! The two best pieces of advice my mom gave me: If you don’t have anything nice to say…. and everything in moderation!

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      ah, very good pieces of advice!

  • http://www.bakebikeblog.com/ Bakebikeblog

    how tasty!

    “Never say anything about someone you wouldn’t say with that person listening”>>>I think this is wonderful advice!

  • Mom

    Hi sweetheart…thanks for the praise, but it takes two people to get advice across and you always had an open ear to receive it which made my job not only easier, but a joy then and to this day!!!!!

    The best advice my mom gave me was not by any words, but by actions. She woke up (I have no idea what time; she was just always there) very early each morning, way before any of her 9 kids, and sat and read The Bible and started each day with prayer. I simply cannot begin to comprehend the effect that has had on my life to this day. Also, to this day, she is a person who is open to interruption at any time for any one in need. I told your grandpa one day, ‘when people call mom for prayer, they always hang up feeling so much better’. His reply, he looked at her and said ‘call me sometime’!!!

  • http://fuelmyfamily.wordpress.com/ Lindsay @ Fuel My Family

    ooo another polenta recipe, perfect! And I hope to be like your mom and at least always listen to my girls when they try and persuade me. I always want to hear them out. My 3 year old is already a lawyer in the making with her persuasive skills!

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      haha, that’s pretty cute :)

  • http://whatisbakinginthebarbershop.blogspot.com/ Colleen

    This look simply fabulous! I love that you make these with quinoa!! My mother has always put others first and has instilled that in my siblings and me – to be thoughtful and give what you can to others!! Happy Mother’s Day to your mom!! :)

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      your mom sounds pretty sweet :)

  • Decocinasytacones

    Your mom is very wise…..the one I put on practice more is “not to gossip”, I hate it…I hate to speak about others when things turn into a negative thing…..I give this advice to my children too.
    Thanks for sharing….
    Marialuisa

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      I’m sure your kids, and others around you, appreciate this!

  • Jolene (www.everydayfoodie.ca)

    Your mom gave you some excellent advice. I am a few hours away from my mom, but I am going to see her next weekend.

  • http://gowiththedough.wordpress.com/ Hillary

    These look delightful!

    I love your mom’s no-gossip advice. It’s something I’ve been trying to practice myself lately!

  • http://www.confessionsofachocoholic.com/ Bianca Garcia

    Among many life lessons, my mom taught me to always be kind, to work hard, and to explore my passions. She is an inspiration, and so are mothers everywhere! Happy Mother’s Day to your mom :)

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      Oh so sweet! Your mother sounds wonderful!

  • http://www.brokenrecord.ca/foodblog camille

    My mom once told me “Honey, when you go out in the world… don’t walk into a post.” Good – and useful – advice. Thanks mom!

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      haha, definitely something to be careful about! :)

  • http://twitter.com/pinchandswirl Marissa

    Awww, you have a sweet and wise mom! + These Chili Relleno Bites look fantastic! The quinoa is a fun addition.

  • http://bite-sized-thoughts.blogspot.com/ Kari

    There is some great advice in here! Very, very true, all of them. These little bites look delicious too :)

  • Gracie Johnson

    That’s some pretty good advice, Happy Mother’s Day to you and your Mom!!!

  • Brandi

    I love this question! I can remember being in this relationship with this guy that I knew was not going to work out, but I didn’t know how to break it to him without hurting him. What did I do? I drove to my parents house in the middle of the night to cry on her shoulder. She let me. She listened. I told her that I loved him, just not the kind of love that he needed or wanted. After I poured myself out on the floor, she said this, “you have to love him enough to get past this and if you don’t then you need to come clean.” She hugged me and that was that. I love the relationship that we have. Great post! Aaaaaand great recipe!

    • http://www.simplylifeblog.com/ Simply Life

      What a touching story!

  • http://swankydietitian.com/ Kristen @ Swanky Dietitian

    These bites look fantastic!!
    My mom has taught me to always be giving. She is a very selfless person. Gotta love her!

  • http://www.quarterlifecrisiscuisine.com/ Bee

    I’m not 100% sold on quiona just yet, but I think it’s mostly the texture. I’d love to try it in little spicy cake form like these though!

  • http://www.gainmusclesize.net/nutrition-ebooks Mandalahi1010

    Hello my friend! I wish to say that this article is amazing, nice written and include almost all important infos. I would like to see more posts like this .

  • http://gobakeyourself.wordpress.com/ Choc Chip Uru

    Your mother is so wise my friend :D
    Got to love her and a fantastic recipe like this too!

    Cheers
    Choc Chip Uru

  • http://www.managedmacros.com/ teri@managedmacros

    Gooooo mom’s!!! :) I am loving this recipe…how unique and FUN! I like the combo of the quinoa and polenta…a creamy nutty taste. Seriously, I bet this is fabulous….I would have a hard time not to eat the entire tray!!

  • http://www.joanne-eatswellwithothers.com/ Joanne

    It’s funny how so many moms had the same advice…my mom swore by that first one! And her other favorite is “why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free”. No comment on that one. :P

    I love the sound of these chile relleno bites! I’m going to take YOUR advice and make them imminently…I love the spice.

  • Emily @ A Cambridge Story

    Love the sound of these spicy quinoa bites! Your mom sounds like a wise lady :)

  • http://luxuryhaven.blogspot.com/ Blackswan

    Happy belated Mother’s Day & what an inspiring post with a lovely recipe! Love it, dear!

  • Barbara

    Those chili rellono bites look fabulous! Nice and spicy too. Guess I’m too old to remember all the things my mother taught me, but I turned out pretty well (if I do say so myself), so I guess she was successful! :)

  • http://www.culinarycolleen.com/ Colleen

    What a cute appetizer! And your mother sounds like a wise lady. In my experience, moms love to gossip!

  • Junia Kim

    your anecdotes of your mother are so thoughtful and beautiful. :) and i love how you used quinoa in these mini bites!

  • http://twitter.com/LisaEirene Lisa Eirene

    What a great idea for the chili relleno. I have a recipe my aunt gave me for the casserole but I like your idea better.

  • http://megan-deliciousdishings.blogspot.com/ Megan

    Such great advice! Moms definitely know best.

  • Amy (Savory Moments)

    Love, love, love chili rellenos. I always try to get them at Mexican restaurants. These bites look absolutely addictive!

  • http://jojoshouse.com/ JoJo

    These look wonderful!
    I tried something similar recently, and it was bigger like burger meat, I like the little balls better!
    “be open minded’ is one of my favorite that I try to live by still :)

  • http://www.bakingserendipity.com/ Baking Serendipity

    I love the advice from your mom :) My mom taught me to live within my means, and make the most of every single situation. She’d love these bites! Bookmarking to make when I’m home this summer!

  • http://bakeforhappykids.blogspot.com.au/ Zoe

    Your mum sounds like a very wise lady and a great role model for everyone. My mum taught me to “protect” myself at all time because she was afraid that I will get hurt…

    I think your mum will love all your cooking and she will be touched by all your thoughts for her :D

  • http://bethmichelle.com/79-2/ Beth Michelle

    Those are all wonderful words of wisdom! Your mom is a very wise woman! These little bites look amazing. Super delicious and packed full of goodness.

  • http://yummychunklet.wordpress.com/ Yummychunklet

    Great post and very appropriate. Happy Mother’s Day!

  • Mom

    I know that this is an old post, but I want to tell you and anyone who may come upon this page one of the best pieces of a life style I learned from my daughter which is: NEVER SETTLE. I watched her pass up job opportunities, educational opportunites and of course boys by living to this standard. WHAT A PAYOFF THIS MOTTO HAS SERVED TO BE. I try to pass on her wisdom to anyone in any situation that I get an opportunity to share with!!

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